Are You Pursuing A Shadow Career?

Shadow careers. You ever heard of ‘em?

They’re the jobs we take instead of the ones we’re meant for. The ones we settle for because they’re easier or more acceptable. The ones that look like what we want, but they’re not quite the same.

I came across this concept in one of Steven Pressfield’s books, and it struck a deep resonance within me.

We all have a calling. A purpose. Something we’re meant to do. But too often, we shy away from it. We let fear or doubt or society’s expectations steer us in a different direction. We tell ourselves we’re being practical or realistic. But really, we’re just avoiding the hard work of chasing our dreams.

Take an artist, for example. She dreams of painting or sculpting or creating something beautiful. But instead of pursuing that, she settles for teaching art or designing logos. Sure, they’re related, but they’re not the same. And deep down, she knows it. She feels unfulfilled and restless, but she can’t quite put her finger on why.

Or consider a writer. He’s got stories to tell and a voice to share. But instead of writing his own books or articles, he becomes an editor or a publicist. He’s still in the industry, sure, but he’s not doing what he’s meant to do. And he feels it in his bones.

Shadow careers can be a dangerous thing. They can keep us stuck and unfulfilled for years. But they can also be a blessing in disguise. They can teach us skills and give us experiences that will serve us when we finally decide to pursue our true calling. They can be the bridge that takes us from where we are to where we’re meant to be.

So if you’re in a shadow career. You’re not alone. But don’t let it become a permanent state. Don’t let fear or comfort or anything else hold you back from what you’re meant to do. Start taking steps toward your true calling, one at a time. You might be surprised at how quickly the path opens up before you.

I’m guilty of shadow careers as well. I have always wanted to make incredible videos but for years I have been giving excuses and chasing alternative careers. I finally see through the lies I have been telling myself and finally willing to pursue my calling.